When I do relationship coaching for couples, this is the most common problem when first dating and choosing a partner. Either one or both of them are not presenting their true self. They only show and discuss all their positive attributes, leaving out the depth of their true authentic self.
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'Jane- Hey im not perfect!.. John- um yeah no one is.. but can you please elaborate so I can decide for myself instead of investing my time to only find out my deal breakers later! If I can know the real you sooner I will have an opportunity to either stay or keep searching! Lets both not waste precious time! '