Dating & Relationships

The saying goes: “We attract who we are.”

But that depends — are you showing who you really are, or who you're pretending to be?

You will attract accordingly.

The problem is, many people present a false version of themselves to lure in the person they're trying to attract. Eventually, they revert to who they really are and then wonder why the new relationship fails. If you stay true to yourself, you'll attract someone who wants you exactly as you are.

Here’s another issue: a lot of people are looking for someone to make them feel better, happier, or to save them. This is why it's so important to do your own inner work before entering a new relationship.

As the saying goes: “You’ve changed.”

Yes, they have… back into themselves.

When you're dating and looking for a relationship, be who you are ❤️

Or become the better version of the person you pretend to be ❤️