'The Relationship Power Shifts' In relationships, there is usually one person who holds more power at certain times, that power naturally shifts and changes as circumstances evolve. While one partner lacks power, the other gains it. It all comes down to how you feel within yourself at the time. If your vibration carries insecurity and co-dependency, you're giving your power to your partner. Your partner then feels a sense of empowerment over you, a sense of comfort in knowing